Flirting with Disaster

1996 Comedy

In this satirical comedy, Mel Coplin (Ben Stiller) has a beautiful wife, Nancy (Patricia Arquette), and a four-month old son, and on the surface his life is good. But something's been troubling him: Mel knows he was adopted, and he can't resolve his issues with the mother who gave him away years ago, much to the annoyance of his adoptive parents (George Segal and Mary Tyler Moore). Mel decides it's time he met his birth parents and resolved his feelings once and for all, and Tina (Tea Leoni), a psychology student, has offered to tag along to capture the event on video for a research project. But after a few minutes with Mel's "real" mother, they discover that a mistake has been made and they've been directed to the wrong person. A second meeting, this time with Mel's supposed dad, also turns out to be a mistake, and it's quite some time before Mel, Nancy, and Tina are finally face to face with Mel's biological parents -- a pair of burned-out hippies (played by Alan Alda and Lily Tomlin) who support themselves by dealing blotter acid daubed onto pictures of Ronald Reagan. It doesn't help that Mel finds himself attracted to the very leggy Tina, or that Nancy's head is turned by a bisexual ATF agent (Josh Brolin). Writer/director David O. Russell previously made a splash with his independent debut feature, 1994's Spanking the Monkey. more..

Director: David O. Russell

Starring: Ben Stiller, Patricia Arquette, Tea Leoni, Mary Tyler Moore, George Segal

Reviews

  • A buoyant, picaresque farce that hums with goofy energy and mines enough ideas, jokes and setups for three movies of this description.

    Edward Guthmann - The San Francisco Chronicle

    19 January 2013

  • Upon all these folks, writer-director David O. Russell turns a bland, almost anthropological eye. Nothing surprises him and nothing outrages him, except for bed-and-breakfast lodgings, about which, at last, his movie tells the terrible truth.

    Richard Schickel - Time

    19 January 2013

  • Mr. Russell's wonderfully mad odyssey of a movie, in which a man sets out to find his biological parents and winds up meeting more weirdos than Alice found down the rabbit hole.

    Elvis Mitchell - The New York Times

    19 January 2013

  • Flirting With Disaster, like that Energizer Bunny, keeps on going. But in this case, the perpetual motion is a deliciously hysterical rush.

    Desson Thomson - The Washington Post

    19 January 2013

  • Writer-director David O. Russell's exhilarating follow-up to "Spanking the Monkey," is even wilder, giddier and more unpredictable than that irreverent debut.

    Hal Hinson - The Washington Post

    19 January 2013

Awards

  • Best Casting for Feature Film, Comedy

    Casting Society of America (1996)

     
  • Best Supporting Actress

    Chlotrudis Awards (1997)

  • Outstanding Film (Wide Release)

    GLAAD Media Awards (1997)

     
  • Best Director

    Independent Spirit Awards (1997)

     
  • Best Screenplay

    National Society of Film Critics Awards (1997)